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Article #74: Weight - a lifetime battle? Part 1

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Weight - a lifetime battle in the society.
If we look back to my "early years" I So, together with my mother, I tried
realise that I had problems with my somehow to organise the eating habits of
weight as long as I can remember. I was a our family in a way, which would enable
chubby during Kindergarden, I was a me to lose some weight and carry on an
chubby child in school and I was chubby active weight management.
teenager. Never really on the fat side of As you probably know by yourselves, this
life, but always with a little bit too was the time when counting of calories
much weight on my bones. Appetite control came in fashion, when watching sugar, fat
or healthy weight loss were never even and carbohydrates became quite normal
discussed in our family and, as far as I amongst the female part of the society,
know, in other families. Both my parents weight watchers made their first real
liked a good meal, both did not count public appearances, in general: weight
calories and the portions were always management suddenly was normal! At least
more than enough. for most people, but clearly not for my
You have to understand, we are talking father! For him weight management was
the sixties and early seventies. Weight plain and simple a modern way to take a
loss or even healthy weight loss was not away the good tasting, homemade food and
discussed amongst people, the medias were replace it vegetables and plain rice.
not yet aware of health and weight My father clearly opposing any sort of
issues. Nobody spent a thought about weight management, it was left for me and
appetite control, because now was really my mother to do it and we tried more or
the first time after World War II, where less every diet and every meal plan, we
almost everybody had enough to eat, the could find. Some was easy and clearly
economy was recovering and for most understandably, some were more of the
people and families the life got better "spherical" kind. Some worked really
and better. Nobody wanted to control well, others were spectacularly
anything and for sure nobody was unsuccessful.
interested in appetite control, because This way I spent my teenage years and my
eating was just too nice. early adulthood with changing weight. A
The biggest blame, if one really wants to diet worked for some time, I lost weight.
use the word, was to put on my granny. Then it got boring or I lost my
For her it was important to have always self-control, I gained the weight again.
enough, better more than enough, food on My weight management was very clearly
the table and in the house. For her trial and error. And this up and down
having some overweight was not bad, it stayed with me until my first child.
was necessary to survive the next war. Although I never reached the ultra slim
For sure, she did not want to hear look I actually was going for, I finally
anything about appetite control. Quite found the boyfriend, who was the real
contrary, I remember her saying many thing. We met during on of my "skinnier"
times that I should be happy that I have times and during the years we were
such a "healthy" appetite. Healthy weight together, he got acquainted to my "shape
loss, although obviously never mentioned, shifting". He, although being not really
would have been an oxymoron for her. overweight, was willing and able, to join
Years, actually decades, later I do not me in my diet plans. Eating the same
have a hard time to understand her and I stuff as I, he soon also experienced some
certainly hold no grudge. Experiencing ups and downs in his weight. All the
and surviving two big wars and bringing different diet plans we tried, were not
children through the second, certainly all completely successful, but overall
was not an easy life and things like the diet plans delivered, what they were
diet, appetite control or healthy weight promising.
loss, were never even crossing her mind, At that time we did not know that we were
because everybody was basically trying to more or less lab-rats for big companies,
stay alive and not to starve. news papers and "diet-specialists".
Be that as it may, during my childhood Nobody knew then that the research on
and my first teenage-years I was on the food and diets, what was healthy and what
heavy side and not even unhappy about it. was not, was more a matter of trial and
Most other kids were the same as I was, I error. Whenever they announced new diet
always had friends. Never being the most plans, it was more guessing than knowing.
popular kid, never being unpopular. Just Some of the diet plans they recommended
running with the majority and within this twenty years ago, would be nowadays
majority, nobody discussed, or thought actual reason for court cases.
about, diets, appetite control, or For example, amongst these diet plans,
healthy weight loss. We were just a bunch there was a "grapefruit & egg" diet,
of happy, chubby kids, playing, running which recommended over the course of
around and just having fun and nobody three weeks no less than 126 eggs (3
thought that anything is wrong with that. minutes) and 42 grapefruits. Additional
Getting out of my childhood and out of there was a little bit of cooked fish and
puberty, I still was not on the slim side once a week, a poached chicken breast.
of life. Clearly at that age, I am Lets not even talk about cholesterol
talking 16, 17, one gets really and (science nowadays would say that 126 eggs
seriously interested in the "other half" are enough for two years!); the only real
of mankind, or as some call it: men! And success after the three weeks was that
unfortunately this was also the time, you started vomiting, by just seeing an
when I first realised that being slightly egg or a grapefruit.
overweight might be a good thing for a All these diet plans had one thing in
war, but was seriously limiting my common: you lost weight during the diet
chances with the boys. So I began "weight and you started gaining weight again,
management" or better, what I believed at roughly three weeks after stopping the
that time to be weight management. diet. The general problem of all diet
The most popular boys were , of course, plans, past and present, is that there is
the ones which were successful in sport no strategy for after the diet. Most diet
and these boys were only interested in plans require a certain amount of
the really slim girls. So I started to self-discipline, which you might master
raise the issue overweight, appetite for some time. But normal human beings
control and weight management at home, like me will lose this self-discipline
because I wanted to become one of them. after a while. Small things like using
It was unnecessary to speak to my granny butter again or having a Danish with the
about it, so I tried my parents. Weight coffee, are the first steps to disaster
management was for my father "terra and from there it is only downhill.
incognita" but at least my mother had For many years, amongst all those diet
started to at least think a little bit plans, I did not once find one, where the
about it. It was the end of the seventies lost weight stayed lost for longer than
and in magazines, newspaper and TV 12 weeks. Then it took another 6-8 weeks
appeared the first reports. And they all to gain the weight again. At this point
said. overweight could be responsible for it was then time for the next item on the
many health issues, which were appearing list of diet plans.






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