| The real story of an American man who | | | | We connected so well because she could |
| unexpectedly falls in love with a woman | | | | communicate easily with me using a mix |
| from Singapore ! Read the story in | | | | of English and Chinese. We simply loved |
| David's original words. | | | | being with one another. |
| A few months ago I noticed a beautiful | | | | At first I didn't want to get serious |
| Asian girl in my school. I am a white | | | | because I knew she would leave me and |
| guy living in Portland, Oregon, but I | | | | return to Singapore soon, but she was so |
| have known many Asian people and have | | | | amazing that I had to try to be with her |
| studied Chinese for a few years. Anyway, | | | | so I asked her if she wanted to get |
| I learned from a classmate that she was | | | | serious and try for a long term (and |
| from Singapore. | | | | soon to be long distance) relationship. |
| She seemed very shy and it seemed like | | | | She was overjoyed that I asked her and |
| she could not speak English well. I | | | | we kissed and hugged for a couple of |
| asked my friend about her and he told me | | | | hours. We were together a few months and |
| she was an exchange student. | | | | in that time together we had a strong |
| Since it was nearly the end of the year | | | | and intimate relationship. She has been |
| I decided not to attempt to ask her out | | | | the most amazing lover I have ever had |
| or even talk to her. I would see her | | | | and could not imagine intimacy being |
| everyday in school though, and I could | | | | better with anyone else. |
| not help looking at her she was so | | | | We decided to try to stay together and |
| beautiful. | | | | she is very devoted to me. We use |
| As the weeks went by we made more and | | | | electronic means to stay in touch and |
| more eye contact, but being kind of | | | | visit each other every few months. I |
| awkward with girls I have never met and | | | | love her more than anything else and |
| not being very knowledgeable on female | | | | want to make her happy. |
| flirting tactics I thought that she was | | | | She is not used to guys treating her the |
| just making eye contact with me because | | | | way I treat her. She says that her |
| I couldn't stop staring at her. | | | | ex-boyfriends in Singapore would never |
| One day she actually came up to me | | | | say, "I love you" or be so gentle in |
| though and after apologizing a lot for | | | | bed. |
| bothering me she asked if I would please | | | | She said that that is why she is so shy. |
| accept a piece of paper with her name | | | | We are not getting married next year. My |
| and number on it and in return give her | | | | message to other men and women out there |
| mine. I was very surprised to say the | | | | who are in relationships like this is |
| least. | | | | that they should stay positive because |
| American girls never would approach me | | | | such relationships do work. |
| in that way. Specially they would not | | | | If you want to know more about Asian |
| apologize for wanting to give me their | | | | girls click here to read more about |
| number; I'm usually the one who has to | | | | Asian girls and visit my favourite pages |
| beg for the girl's number. | | | | : |
| We exchanged numbers, and after the | | | | Asian-Girls-Dating Homepage, |
| reality set in that the girl I have been | | | | Asian Adult Dating, |
| dreaming about for months had just made | | | | Singapore Girls |
| a move towards me I became very excited | | | | Best regards |
| and called her as soon as I got home. | | | | Dao Jones |
| I learned that she was an exchange | | | | Dao Jones, the founder of is connecting |
| student and was not allowed to have a | | | | Asian girls to western men in a very |
| boyfriend but was very interested in me | | | | unique and succesfull way. |
| and did not care about the rule since it | | | | Since 2001 she is giving dating and |
| was the end of the year. After dating a | | | | writing tips, as well as lots of |
| while I took her to a dance club for her | | | | information about the special |
| 18th birthday. | | | | caharcteristics of Asian women. |